Hello, I’m Mendy Pellin, and I have Ulcerative Colitis.

I first shared this on social media a few years back after relocating from Los Angeles to New York. It was a moment of realization about the long-standing culture of secrecy surrounding health issues, and I aimed to help others feel less isolated during their health journeys—yes, even in the bathroom! It may sound amusing, but it’s crucial.

Since I’ve “come out,” I’ve had the privilege to support many individuals within our community who felt safe reaching out after receiving an IBD diagnosis or struggling to find effective treatments.

It’s often said that humor can emerge from trauma—so what’s the origin of bathroom humor?

This is a question that anyone living with Crohn’s or Ulcerative Colitis can likely answer. Humor is an effective tool to ease the shame connected to the uncomfortable moments we endure.

Connecting with others who share similar experiences—or at least find themselves in the neighboring stall—can also help mitigate that sense of shame.

Shame can exacerbate anxiety that contributes to disruptive flare-ups.

Staying informed with the latest knowledge can also help alleviate anxiety.

These elements are vital components of our event happening this Tuesday evening:

• Connect with neighbors who understand the silent struggles.
• Gain insights on cutting-edge medical treatments from Dr. Hudesman, a leading expert in IBD.
• Learn from Dr. Keefer, a renowned researcher focused on the mind-gut connection.
• Listen to our cherished Dr. Eli Rosen, a physician deeply attuned to our community’s health challenges.

This evening promises to be filled with valuable information, all delivered with a sprinkle of humor, courtesy of your host.

This gathering isn’t just for those with IBD; it’s also designed for friends, family, and loved ones looking to better understand how to provide support.

I’ve ensured that all restrooms are conveniently located, well-stocked, and fully operational, so you can avoid any “humorous” mishaps.

Join us on Tuesday, February 25, at 8:30 PM at Lubavitcher Yeshiva, 570 Crown Street.
For any inquiries about the event, please contact [email protected].